I remember when I thought Ryder was a female IRL so I used to hit on him // and my character cooked dinner for his.
These two things should have nothing to do with each-other. Item 1 was an honest mistake (which I think I rectified, I hope, my memory's a little hazy there, it's not like we spoke in chat very often), Item 2 was simply not metagaming.
Rules which I reject (by agreeing to a thread with me, you are agreeing to fight by these rules.)
* Dodging is a simple Speed stat vs Attack Speed check, there is no skill check involved in whether or not a dodge is successful.